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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We have discussed timelines and wants throughout our entire relationship. We became pretty serious at 6 months and he brought up marriage. He said I love you for the first time and told me he was in love with me. At 1 year, he brought up marriage again. He told me flat out that he wants to marry me and build a life together and needed to know I was on the same page. We discussed moving in together this month. We both own our own condos and I will be moving in to his. My plan is to rent it out mine until I feel it’s right to sell. I do think a ring is in the near future. [b]When discussing engagement, he said that [b]it will happen when it happens[/b] and that moving in together and [u]seeing how we cohabit is the next best step[/u].[/b] [/quote]

So he wants to marry you, but only if you get through the probationary period? And "it will happen when it happens" - what does that mean?

That would be a hard no from me. [/quote]

Yeah, this part is a red flag to me, even though I think on a case-by-case basis it can be appropriate to move in without a ring. He's stringing you along. His answer is noncommittal at best.[/quote]

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