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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a widow - since kids were young- and I do not wish this life on anyone. [/quote] You would if you had an abusive marriage: would love nothing better than living life with just me and my kids. That is far better than a horrible marriage or having to coparent with someone you never want to speak to again. [/quote] Can you please not say this to a widow? We are traumatized enough as it is without your projections. I am sorry for anyone's trauma about an abusive marriage, but please extend kindness to others' situations without inserting a different narrative. Being in an abusive marriage is terrible. Being a widow is terrible. Leave it at that, please.[/quote] Being a widow w kids at a young age (like my grandmother was) must be totally different from being stuck in an abusive marriage with kids for decades. Don’t bother comparing them or saying Please don’t tell me your problems. Yuck. [/quote]
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