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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel you.  I don't understand why people pretend attraction is controllable.  You can control your behavior but you cannot control your basic physical responses.

I am 50 with three young kids.  I weigh about 30 pounds over my wedding weight.  I don't deny that I am fat and less attractive.  If my DH is less attracted to me because of this, it is his own deal.  I do not control his sexuality. I freely admit I gained weight because of various life stresses, less time to work out and eating as if I'm still thirty and a gym rat.

It is what it is.  Your feelings are your own as long as you do your duty.[/quote]

Yes people can control who they are attracted to. It’s highly socialized. Some societies are more attracted to fat people. Its all in your head.[/quote]

Absolutely not. I don't find fat people attractive at all - wife here. [/quote]

That’s because you were socialized to think that. You’ve been programmed to think that you can be deprogrammed [/quote]

That's insane. What's next, showering weekly? 
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