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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don't want men like yourself who aren't wealthy, failed at marriage and have children to support then just focus on your career and raising your children. Times have changed, women don't need men, they can be independent.

There aren't that many single, child free rich men out there in that age range, most are married to mothers of their own children who actually are good partners. It would be counterintuitive to marry women who already failed at making wealth, being good and loyal partners and bring little to the table but children to be raised and financial needs to be fulfilled. [/quote]

This is it right here.

Any HVM isn’t going to want an older, bitter divorced woman with her dirty unruly kids.  If you’re in a marriage that failed why would he be interested?  If they’re doing well they’re already married to HVW who bring a lot to the table.

If they are divorced they’re dating younger women with no kids.  [/quote]

Many divorced women did succeed in making wealth, have highly successful kids and had long and productive marriages, just growing apart with men. You sounds bitter: it’s not a HVW man by definition if he’s still single in his 40-50s, and never had a relationship or kids. These are men with deep issues or usual sexual preferences. 
I date divorced men with kids and many of them are more stable emotionally and financially than never married crowd [/quote]

Attractive successful NICE women at any age can find a man.

80% of women want 20% of the top men. When the women start aging (40+), most men their age are already taken. The good ones are mostly still married. The good divorced ones are just picking others, not OP. They may have found someone like OP sooner or found a younger version of OP.

I have friends with older single moms. They are widowed or divorced but all have money. My adult friends are so upset at all the losers their moms are hanging out with. If you think it is slim pickings at age 45, you have 55 and 60 to look forward to.[/quote]

My current partner is 48, I’m 45. I did date mostly men 50-59 but ended up with someone close to my age. Men over 50 were telling me on dates that unfortunately very few 50+ women look as good as their pictures, or these women don’t want sex so men end up dating younger. [/quote]

I posted above about our successful male divorced friends dating. The attractive successful divorced women moved on almost immediately. They were highly sought after when they were young and still desired and wanted in their forties. They were late thirties/early forties.

There is a huge difference between 40 and 50. Im 46 and I feel I aged a decade in the past year. I looked fantastic at 40. Once 45 hit, I suddenly look and feel my age. My friends who were 9 and 10s in their twenties and thirties look average by late forties and 50. Not many 50 year olds are still hot. Look at even Jennifer Aniston. [/quote]

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