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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if you decide to keep the pregnancy, you could lie to the guy (if he is a deadbeat) that you’ve had a miscarriage.
Then move to another part of the country and cease all contact. Raise your child as a single mother. Tell them that you used a sperm donor when they are old enough and curious.
Do not tie your life to a loser or someone you dislike. I would either choose this or abortion. The rest if the options are bad imo.[/quote]

This is great until the kid takes a DNA test in 20 years and goes knocking on the guys door (happened to my neighbor).  Bonus kid!  That doesn’t benefit anyone.[/quote]

This is seriously something OP should keep in mind. People now can locate birth parents FAR more easily than ever. And OP herself (or the baby's father) would never even have to have taken any DNA test themselves. If even a relative of theirs takes a DNA test just for genealogy hobby reasons--that can lead the kid she put up for adoption to find her. It can rock a person's entire world and cause profound family problems. [/quote]

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