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PSA to men: most wives will want sex with you if they find you attractive, don't resent you, aren't stressed , and you are great in bed.[/quote]

If only it were this easy. This is pretty dismissive of women who want to want sex with their husbands but just don't. They love their husbands, think he is a great person, have average stress loads, and enjoyed the sex life they had. Long term marriage, aging, and hormone levels make their libidos flat line. Nothing to do with the quality of the husband, and the wife feels terrible about it.

And here you are, painting a picture that leaves these women looking like freaks and oddities. But this is a depressingly common scenario. [/quote]

Yes many of the men commenting here are gross.
They really want women for only  one thing.
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I’m a woman, and this seems like a bizarre statement to make in the context of a long term marriage.

Yes, the guys who are trying to find women thirty years younger than themselves on the dating apps are gross.  But the OP doesn’t seem gross.  He seems sad.

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