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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes in this life you just don't get what you want. I understand that for people experiencing infertility, the lack of a child is like a gaping chest wound, but that doesn't make it right to exploit others for your personal benefit. Having a child is not actually a human right. [/quote] You would be the first to change your tune if it happens to you.[/quote] No, not everyone who experiences infertility makes their problem other people’s problem as well.[/quote] Easy for you to talk when you’ve effortlessly popped out your kids.[/quote] Did you have a surrogate? Is that why youre so defensive? You feel guilty over paying a poor person to grow your child?[/quote] Yes, I had a surrogate. And no, I don’t feel guilty. [/quote] Uh huh. That’s why you’re so defensive and insecure in your choice.[/quote] [b]I never had a surrogate and easily popped out kids.[/b] So, you can’t accuse me of feeling desperate or defensive about it. I support it wholeheartedly. I think it’s a miracle of medical science and humanity that doctors can take a little egg, a tiny sperm and create an embryo in a Petri dish to then implant in a willing surrogate. It’s amazing that the surrogate’s body doesn’t reject the foreign dna and that a baby can grow. I am delighted for the infertile women (and their husbands if they have them) who can now have the babies they dreamed about. I’m thrilled that gay men are no longer relegated to be uncles or doggie daddies and can have a family and be loved as a parent like everyone else. I do not think paid surrogacy is immoral, appalling or bad in any way. I am sure that things can go wrong, but for me the good outweighs the potential bad. To the rabid anti surrogacy posters, I have this to say: there is no argument you can make that will persuade me to change my views on the subject. My opinion isn’t relevant to you, I get it, but yours is unwarranted on an infertility board where people are seeking support in achieving the families THEY want. It’s not about you. Can’t you all leave this board and get together and form some sort of private anti surrogacy one? You can email each other back and forth about the evils of surrogacy, and equate it to slavery until the cows come home. But can’t you just get lost from this infertility support group? You’re insensitive and misguided to say the least. Get lost![/quote] Ha! You open your post boasting about how you "easily popped out kids" like a goddamn brood mare, and then have the breathtaking audacity to accuse people against surrogacy of being insensitive? Lady, take a good hard look at yourself. You lack all self-awareness and are a raging hypocrite. Why are YOU in this thread if you're ceaselessly filling your womb with babies? Don't you have some asses to wipe? Isn't it time for another insemination?[/quote] You are a vile, ugly, evil creature inside and out. [/quote] DP. I think the pro-surrogacy racist troll and nasty anti-surrogacy troll above are in fact the same poster. Somebody thinks this is a funny topic, and is using this infertility thread to create drama.[/quote] I think you’re right. Sigh. [/quote] Nope.[/quote]
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