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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Not the PP you were previously arguing with, though I agree with her.

So, your conversations crossed the line.  It's good that you apparently realized that.  But you don't think that when you were "willing to take it physical", it got too far?  Because it honestly sounds like maybe you ended it because you felt rejected at that point, and now you're backtracking to make yourself sound like this upstanding wife and person, when, in reality, you should have been working on your marriage instead of seeking intimate attention of any kind from someone else.  [/quote]

The world is not black and white.  I'm sure most people who have emotional affairs and even physical affairs do not initially start the day thinking "I'm going out to find someone to cheat on my spouse".

My emotional affair was very gradual.  I met someone whom I had a lot in common and enjoyed talking with.  Our conversations originally were professional then turned casual then eventually very personal.  We grew very attracted to each other.  The more we talked, the more we liked each other.

It's a grey area when the actual line between when the friendship and emotional affair began but it is something I definitely had not planned on.  The point I was willing to take it to the physical level is when I realized a definite line had been crossed.  It did cause me to do some soul searching and I didn't like where things could have gone.  When I acknowledged that I was screwing up my marriage by seeing this guy, I decided to break off all contact.

If having a physical affair is what I truly planned on and desired, [b]I'm sure I could have found a man that would be game for sex.  I could have even stayed in the emotional affair to try to tempt him to take things physical. [/quote][/b]

Any woman can find a man game for sex.[/quote]

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