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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a PP who was in a crappy marriage and was actively trying to work on it while my husband checked out and cheated. I had mentioned that [b]I don't understand how someone would decide that having an affair is a better choice than just separating. [/b]Sure it may seem easier, but it is astounding to me that someone could rationalize that behavior. But there is a special level of wrong when you choose an affair partner who is also married. Sure, f up your own life and find that emotional or sexual connection you need with some random single. It is impossible for me to understand how you could be so lacking in morality, self-esteem, and self-control that you could get involved with another married person, and even less so when that person has children of their own. [/quote] am in a similar situation and totally agree. my dh is having an affair with a college student at the school where he teaches. I told him this disgusts me and that it is more reprehensible than your average affair. do others agree, or is it just me that thinks this is an abusive of his power? she is also a foreign student, from a developing country notorious for its human rights violations, which I believe makes her potentially more vulnerable.[/quote]
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