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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What would she get? He dropped her the minute I discovered it and has been completely no contact, doing everything he can to show remorse, work on marriage, etc.  this is for me… [/quote]

You would be giving her great satisfaction. It would show all is not well in your home or with you.

Please talk to a therapist instead.

There is no way you will not regret reaching out to her.

Stick to the high road.

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My therapist recommended it. (No OP)[/quote]

No she didn't [/quote]

Yes she did. Not at first, after much discussion.

I’m not afraid of conflict and I don’t like to leave anything on the table so we decided together, for me, it was the right move.[/quote]

+1 the reason they don’t advice it is for their own malpractice insurance/cover your @ss.  If something violent comes out of it they don’t want culpability.

I did it and then told therapist.  Therapist actually thought it was fantastic after the fact and saw how it provided closure, not that he would have advised it if I asked first.[/quote]

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