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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a fifty-four year old woman & I think the man (age/income does not matter) should only pay for the first 2-3 dates if this includes a dinner + maybe a movie or a show afterward.

After that - I would expect our dates to be Dutch.
If the guy offered to pay for the majority of our dates out &gt; as a thank you, I would insist on cooking for him when we eat in or pay for a good movie from my TV service.

It appears this guy is tired of always covering the cost of your dates out and he is being passive/aggressive by complimenting the hostess’s nails.

He should have just addressed his financial issues w/you directly but it appears that he cannot for some reason.

If you would like to continue seeing this guy, then I strongly encourage you both to discuss who will pay for what re: future dates.

Good luck![/quote]

The issue with that is that he might be dating cute 30 year olds in parallel to you and paying for them. You de-facto are subsidizing a man two-timing you giving him a higher dating budget. I wouldn’t pay anything until we are exclusive. Exclusive to me means having sex, regular at each others homes, were introduced to friends and family etc. [/quote]

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