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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP what is the alternative?[/quote]

One home during the week and school year.

Other home during some weekends and summer.

50 -50 is for the guilty parents. If the parents cared at all about the kids they wouldn't put them through 50-50.[/quote]

100% this. My ex spent 6 figures during my divorce in a failed attempt to not pay the usual (and very low!) state required child support but also really, to save face with the one or two friends who would still *barely* speak to them after what they did to my family. Didn't work out for the ex. So, we all MUST be punished. Including elementary aged children. How dare they love the other parent!

In the ex's mind, I guess my children MUST be punished and now their AP is fully in charge of the denigration campaign.

Oh, that's not allowed? Ok, word to the wise, bad people negotiate custody agreements knowing they'll violate them on the way to their car. In the absence of overt child abuse there is absolutely nothing you can do. Thank me later, after you save $20k in legal fees trying to enforce your very excellent and virtually worthless custody agreement in court.

I made sure my children see my ex enough, pursuant to their therapist's best practices and guidelines, but little enough that my ex can't screw up the kids' lives with school sports friends etc., in an ever more desperate effort to control me and make the kids into dependent babies with zero lives or friends of their own.

Yeah, I sound angry because I am. No child should be used as a pawn or a vanity item in an adult's "midlife crisis" narcissistic death spiral. [/quote]

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