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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless the husband is rich. Women do most of the unpaid and unnoticed domestic labor in the home. They use their body to create babies and then do most of the childcare. If the husband isn’t rich, what does he bring to the table? [/quote] Another post from The Coven of Bitter Divorcees.[/quote] +1 There's a reason why guys never date American women when there are other options available. So frumpy and horrible attitudes.[/quote] Honestly, these threads make me worry for my son. I hope that he does not marry a typical DC metro woman bc the attitudes are just awful. I often wonder if leaving this area and returning to my home state would be better for the kids future prospects. Everyone is just so miserable here. [/quote] I also have a son for some reason he can’t learn to put away his dishes or make his bed despite my patient reminders. I worry for his future kids and wife and will be happy if some girl agrees to take him on with all these man child qualities. I could not do my job as a mother, therapists couldn’t do it, and I don’t know why men just fail in modern society [/quote] I think it would be kinder to hope your son doesn’t have a future wife to burden, don’t you?[/quote] I will try to be a very appreciative and involved grandmother if I am lucky to get grand kids. I always tell myself how grateful I would be to any girl who would give him a family experience. [/quote] But think about this for a second. You want a girl to give your son “a family experience” knowing that means she is going to be responsible for doing way more of the work of the household while you’re son takes advantage of her. Are you going to support your son financially as an adult? Because what you’re describing is a heartless thing to wish on someone else’s daughter.[/quote] I would definitely help his family financially (house down, education for grandkids, take grand kids for the weekend so she could rest). I think boys fail when they watch dominant fathers not do anything around the house. It’s not just the moms who fail to grow up men. [/quote] This. Also genetics. There are some things my oldest does, but generally he has the same anxiety his dad had and it's been there since age 1. Was flagged by his preschool teachers as needing support and it's never let up. His other siblings just don't have the same genetic makeup expressed.[/quote]
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