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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And, you OP have responsibility to protect relationship of your daughter with her blood aunt or uncle and not let money grabber greedy stepdaughter mess it up[/quote]

Right because blood is automatically always more important than your relationship with your spouse...[/quote]

I would definitely put my daughter before my spouse who was trying to drive a wedge between us. Spouse is easily replaced.[/quote]

I'm not referring to the daughter I'm referring to his brother. Why does he owe his brother loyalty over the woman he chose to marry??

Everyone here seems to say his relationship with his brother is more important than his relationship with his wife. Your wife is now your immediate family and after marriage your siblings become extended family[/quote]

It’s not about owing the brother loyalty, it’s that as a reasonable sane person you need to side with the reasonable sane person in a disagreement and not with the unreasonable insane one. Even if that unreasonable insane one is the woman you just made the mistake of marrying.[/quote]

OP didn’t say it was a mistake to marry her and said that he was frightened at the thought of divorce.  
If you want to stay married, you don’t take an objective stance on any argument your spouse is in.  You just take their side.

If my husband hated his job and came home with plans to blow up the building he works in, Office Space style, I would take a look at the plan.  I wouldn’t tell him that maybe the boss is right and the TPS reports were late.  You just side with your spouse.

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