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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And, you OP have responsibility to protect relationship of your daughter with her blood aunt or uncle and not let money grabber greedy stepdaughter mess it up[/quote]

Right because blood is automatically always more important than your relationship with your spouse...[/quote]

I would definitely put my daughter before my spouse who was trying to drive a wedge between us. Spouse is easily replaced.[/quote]

I'm not referring to the daughter I'm referring to his brother. Why does he owe his brother loyalty over the woman he chose to marry??

Everyone here seems to say his relationship with his brother is more important than his relationship with his wife. Your wife is now your immediate family and after marriage your siblings become extended family[/quote]

Think it through, if you shut down the trips with the loving aunt and uncle you risk alienating the daughter. It's all related. OP has only been married 6 months and the wife is pulling the bait and switch. She knew about these trips, and now she's trying to change the rules to her benefit. I wouldn't jeopardize my relationship with my daughter for a duplicitous spouse.[/quote]

6 months or 60 years you are still married just the same. Don't marry someone with kids if you put your relationship with your brother over the relationship with your step kids.[/quote]

You know marriages can be ended with divorce, right? The daughter is forever the spouse is not. [/quote]

I'm talking about the brother. You should owe your wife and children a little more than your sibling[/quote]

Nah. Wives come and go, siblings are forever.[/quote]

That's a very shitty viewpoint to take on a marriage and maybe that's one of the reasons the divorce rate is so high is because people continue to put their extended family (parents and siblings) above their spouse forgetting they made vows to be with their spouse till death do us part. They didn't make vows to their siblings to be with them till death do us part, they aren't sharing a bed and a literal life with their sibling, they don't make huge life decisions with their siblings, they don't have possible kids with their siblings. I say all that definitely should trump a sibling.

The fact he be is putting the relationship with his brother above his own wife and step child speaks volumes of his priorities. I can certainly see him putting his own child even before his wife but not his brother.

And it's also false that siblings are forever. People go no contact with blood family all the time. Blood doesn't guarantee a forever relationship. Blood can screw you over too. Not sure why on DCUM it's blood always before all. I think the spouse you actively choose to be in your life and share your life with kinda takes the cake on importance but yes continue to put your sibling who you don't even live with and share your life with and who probably has a family of their own they prioritize first and see where that gets you

My husband has 2 brothers. One he talks to about 3-4 x a month the other he talks to about 2-3 times a year. If he put his brother he speaks to 2-3 a year above me and our marriage when I see the guy everyday, share a life and a house, share a bed with him he would have another thing coming. [/quote]

If you are as greedy, stupid, and toxic as OPs wife, you better believe your husband should side with the party who is in the right-- the brother.

What, you have no conceot of right and wrong?    Were you raised by a street gang or thugs bound by a criminals code of loyalty to each other?

Do you actually think if you try to F@CK with someone the way OPs wife tried to F@CK with his brother, and nownis F@CKing with OP himself, your spouse is doing the right thing by siding with you?

Please.  Only criminals think that way.[/quote]

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