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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thinking they have all the time in the world to work on the personal life piece: home and family. No, you don't. Time moves very, very quickly. Society loves to lie to you every day.[/quote]

+1000.  You will wake up one day and be 30 and will wonder what the hell happened.[/quote]

Childfree women are the happiest demographic.[/quote]

Right? Guarantee that there are more married 40 year old women w kids waking up and wondering what the hell happened to their lives :) I don’t discuss this with my childless friends directly, but I’m fairly sure they consider themselves pretty darn lucky in many ways to be in their positions. [/quote]

I think people who are doing what they truly want in life are pretty happy . So if you truly wanted kids and a spouse and didn't just do it because you thought you should you're probably happy. Same if you didn't want to be a mom and spouse. Conversely if you did want marriage and kids and it didn't happen you're probably not so happy. Or if you had those kids and have a spouse but regret it you're probably unhappy.

Bringing it back to the original topic the best thing a woman can learn her own mind as soon as possible. Figure out what she wants in life. Not her parents, friends, social media, her boyfriend etc. What she wants and pursue it fervently.[/quote]

Nah. I very much wanted kids. But kids are a huge financial and personal stressor. They do not increase happiness in the short term!

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-many-single-women-without-children-are-so-happy?amp

This is one reason I like to spend time with mom friends and “wine aunt” friends. [/quote]

Has a biological yearn for children, cites multimedia propaganda to “prove” she’s fine. She’s just fine. In fact, she’s happier than her friends with husbands and children![/quote]

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