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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you're reasonable OP! I think there are a lot of SN moms on this board and their feelings are clouding their judgement. This SN brother has a large inheritance and another one coming to him. Surely he also get social security disability?

OP maybe you could look at larger homes that have an inlaw suite for brother in case he needs it? Maybe then your dh would use his inheritance.

I do think it's selfish he won't use his inheritance and expects you to use yours.[/quote]

Could be...I am an SN parent and would cut out this woman in a minute.
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Yeah, feeling cloudy too because I think her husband should leave her at the front door of her mommy and daddy's house and never return. [/quote]

I'm also a SN parent. MIL is in denial so it's likely there are [b]no necessary arrangements. [/b]   The real problem is the MIL's denial and the OP DH going along with it.  At 80 the MIL could end up in assisted living or a next level of care skilled nursing facility.

Assume OP has kids.  All DH inheritance benefits BIL not his children.  Better to have less % to the DH and controls on the BIL portion. Meanwhile from the OP it sounds like BIL can't work so maybe he gets social security off the GF and MIL gets a spousal or her own.   [/quote]

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