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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m doing it because he’s willing and interested. I don’t have any other men calling at the moment so why not just enjoy the attention and the sex for as long as it lasts? Besides I’m starting to really dig him! He’s a grown man he can make his own decisions on whether not he’s going to step out on you. It’s not like I’m making him do anything he doesn’t want to do.[b] If he was happy and committed then I wouldn’t stand a chance. [/b]The problem isn’t with me, it’s with your relationship with him. [/quote]

People do this when they are unhappy with themselves.  It's a mental health thing.  It has nothing to do with a longtime partner. They are compartmentalizing and using you like a bottle of vodka.  They are often still having weekly sex with their wife at home and playing happy family man.  What I do know is that when it's discovered you will get discarded like a dirty rag, all communication will be cutoff and you are going to be in a very low point in your life.  I see the fallout after things like this and it's not pretty.

But, the worst is the complete lack of empathy or care that what you are doing has real life trauma implications to a woman and her kids.  Choosing to be part of that is just disgusting and says a lot about your poor character and lack of empathy.  I don't know what went wrong in your upbringing that being part of an affair is even an option.  Zero integrity.[/quote]

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