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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would you go for a second date ladies if the guy cannot be googled/no verifiable online presence? We exchanged numbers, I gave my actual one and I do have a pretty public presence online. His number gives nothing, neither does online name/location search. He did share the detail about his life, showed videos of his son and appeared a normal dmv guy.

But I am not comfortable going out for dinner with someone I don't really know. And it feels like we are on unequal footing from the beginning, me being transparent and him protecting privacy. If he thinks I am a nutcase, why offer dinner date?[/quote]

You're [i]uncomfortable[/i] because you don't think the guy is rich. "normal dmv guy" i.e. he's a middle class schmuck with ex and kiddo baggage. You're looking for an excuse to ghost when the real reason you want to ghost is he isn't high-status and rich enough for you.[/quote]

You see in it what you want to see. Maybe because you are are a middle class schmuck with an ex and kiddo buggage yourself. I simply turn on my impulse control with hot guys, after having couple of these types ghost me after sex in my 20s. I actually have hard time to keep my pants zipped with men I am attracted to. Yes, I sabotaged it with him as I felt it would go too fast without even me knowing him, and while he uses burner number. I would have slept with dozens of men without self damage control (and most OLD men are whores without any impulse control sleeping with multiple women). 
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