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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a mom, I have different standards for my DD and my DS for paying for dates. However the goal is same - they attract good people and they remain protected.

I want my DS to always pays or insists on paying for dates. He also has to listen to the girl and allow her what she wants (he pays or she pays).   The idea is that he is treating the girl right, earn her trust and respect, and give her the options.  The default is that he pays.

I want my DD to never allow guys to pay for her on dates, and only allow the guy she is going steady with or married to to pay.  In her case, it allows her to not feel any obligation and not create any negative feelings in men if things don't work out.  This also allows her to keep dates inexpensive (because she is paying her share) and not over the top. The default is that she goes dutch.

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My mom also had a lot of ideas about what my dating life should look like which had no relationship to my actual values or feelings, stigmatized normal things to want, were useless as guides to my own behavior, and weren't any of her business in the first place. [/quote]

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