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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess a related question is to prenup or not to prenup? In my case I came into the marriage with a fair amount of money and she came in with some debt. I thought about a prenup but ultimately decided not to. And while things can always change suddenly, at this point 20 years later I'm glad I decided against it.

Just as splitting a check can take away from the romance of a date, a prenup can take away from the romance of a marriage. It's the same principle, just several orders of magnitude greater. [/quote]

My DD wants to marry a man from a different race, culture and religion.  We are immigrants.  non-White, non-Christians.  He is opposite. They want to marry young. My advice to them is to have a prenup that becomes null and void once they have kids.  Also, I don't want my DD to have a kid for at least 5 years of marriage.  In 5 years, if they break up, why should anyone pay for anything?   She can determine if he is worth being a lifelong partner and if she wants him to be the father of her children.   He has probably more money now and in future than her.  She has us.  We will pay for the whole wedding. [/quote]

Well, that's extremely controlling.[/quote]

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