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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Guy should pay for first four or five dates. After date two, girl should offer. Guy should say no thru date four or five and after that let her pay some. At that income level though he should be paying like eighty percent. [/b]

I agree it’s kind of rude if the girl doesn’t start to offer after the first couple dates, but the guy should mostly turn her down if he has that much money[/quote]

I was just about to say I agree and then I realize that’s because I ended up with someone that feels the same way.  So I will say there is no “should” it’s about finding the person that sees it the way that you do.  I would have been uncomfortable with a guy that paid for every date past the first few dates but there are other people that want that.

So if the guy that makes 500K wants to date someone that is willing to offer to pay after the first few dates, I’m sure they can find person to date that has that mindset and actually prefers/appreciates it.  If the guy makes 500K and never wants to let the other person pay, I am sure he can find someone that agrees with that as well and prefers/appreciates it.  Why try to fit a square peg in a round hole when there are enough people out there to find someone that feels the same?[/quote]

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