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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, I’m sorry for your pain. From what you wrote, it sounds like the primary issue you have with your DH is the dishonesty and potential disruption to your family, not the physical act itself. If so, I agree with this - I myself am not monogamous, but do not hide it from my DH. In my case, I have a specific kink DH does not share, and he is just fine outsourcing it. We have several ground rules, one of which is that my kink does not take time away from our family life. When DC was young, that meant I would only indulge very rarely (for example, if DC were at a sleepover). Now that DC is older and much more independent, I could do it more often but honestly am quite content with the status quo. DH and I have a healthy and loving relationship both physically and emotionally, and have sought to model that for DC. We have a happy home, and DH and I truly hope to grow old together, long after we’ve lost any kind of appetite for sex, kinky or otherwise!

I think all the things you’ve been doing since discovery are prudent, but would also suggest you talk with your DH (when you’re ready), see what’s going on with him, and determine how the two of you wish to proceed. I would not ignore or pretend, but that’s just my 2 cents based on my own experience.[/quote]

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