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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would confront him in therapy. You need support as you go through this. Gather your evidence and take your time.

Regarding your children — yes, we compromise over non ideal situations to make their lives better. However, living a lie will eat you from inside until you have nothing real left to give. Only stay if you guys can find a way back to a truthful relationship. Some people mentioned sex addiction — I think all cheating has an addictive core in that it’s done to escape shame. It’s not the sex per se, it’s the lying and hiding and dishonesty, the not being able to be open, to having a perfect facade that’s not you. I am sorry you are going through this but you are strong. This is not a failure, it’s the beginning of a real and honest life for you. Have courage.[/quote]

Do not expect therapy to solve anything. In fact therapy might make it worse. Everyone has to behave and normalize behavior. Cheaters lie. Expect a lying game if you do this.[/quote]

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