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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Indeed! I love my SILs and realized reading this that I use the excuse of reaching out to them about logistics because I want to chatter about other stuff and catch up, but will consciously make it a point to reach out to them to catch up only, and ask my brothers about logistics etc.[/quote]

That is awesome. I’m sure they will appreciate that. I would love it if my ILs reached out to me for something other than (what boils down to) emotional labor: gift ideas, what size are the kids, what dates can we come visit (plan our visit), can you bring pecan pie and roasted vegetables and wine…

Literally the only thing they ever contact me about that isn’t family dynamics/emotional labor is a “Happy Birthday” text, which is a nice thing to do. But I would love it if my SIL showed any interest in me as a person. [/quote]

“Emotional labor”. So that’s what we are calling family relationships these days? How miserable. [/quote]

Your reading comprehension is terrible. Try again.[/quote]

I read perfectly right. You feminists don’t like to be called out for your emotional coldness and unavailablity. Since when is knowing your child”s sizes of gift ideas emotional labor? When your a feminist trying to be a mother apparently. [/quote]

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