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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op , it only seems fair that your “fiancé” should leave one house to his older (adult)  kids and one to you and the younger child you share (or to younger child with your right to live in it). But given that he’s not married you and hasn’t put you in either house this may not be easy.

Get thee to a lawyer and figure out your options.

Does he have a will? Do you get support for your older kids? [/quote]

She has no job so it doesn't matter who he "leaves the other house to".  If there's a mortgage on it, he's leaving it to the bank since OP has no income with which to pay the mortgage.[/quote]

Typically a non-scummy man will arrange it so the mother of his minor child inherits the house and will maintain life insurance to cover the mortgage if something happens. [/quote]

Did someone force her to procreate with him?

Did someone force her to stay with a non-marrying man for 7 years?

Did someone force her to not work?

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Right sounds like some real non-scummy reasoning there! “Ok lady you’re having my baby, you can stay in my house and take care of if for room and board, but don’t expect anything else because my older kids are my priority.”
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Lol. 2nd wife/husband will never come before the kids. I thought everyone knew that. Apparently not[/quote]

And that's exactly the way it should be. I'm still mx ex-husband's beneficiary because I take care of his kids. Kids first. Always. Second spouses who don't understand the pecking order are in for a world of pain. I say this as a divorced mom who is set to remarry a divorced dad and is working on the prenup that protects our kids from their step-parent. [/quote]

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