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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound like a despicable person.  Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser.  10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy[/quote]
Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that. [/quote]

How do you know this guy is your soulmate? You know nothing about him. I feel like I’d be more sympathetic if he was your best childhood friend or somethung and you actually knew him. [/quote]
I don’t know. I just know that I will never forget the first time I met him, it sounds melodramatic but it’s true. I haven’t felt such chemistry in so long, at least 20 years, if ever. I will never forget that. I admit I don’t know him well but I sense he feels similarly. I don’t work with him but we live in the same area and after we met he suddenly started walking by more frequently and chatting.[/quote]

Classic limerence, he’s not that into you and you don’t know each other. You are addicted to how he makes you feel but you know nothing at all about him. Get therapy or join a limerence support community like the one on Reddit . [/quote]
So everyone who has chemistry with someone is in limerance? How do you differentiate between lust potentially love and limerance? Couldn’t limerance grow into love?[/quote]

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