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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At what age does spreading out a selection of foods and letting your child pick what they are going to eat stop? Because most people don't eat meals at a buffet. Most people eat meals like this: appetizer, main course, dessert. So at some point you're doing your DC a disservice to continue letting them act like a toddler learning to eat and not teaching them to eat like everyone else. What point is that? My guess is when they enter school. OP's child is no longer a toddler.[/quote]

You should read up on DOR but it’s not “a buffet of food”  it’s several items (like a sandwich, yogurt, berries and an oatmeal cookie for example!) all of which you are fine with your DC making their whole meal. Then how much and which items they eat is up to them. Kid wants to have just yogurt today, fine, kid wants to have second sandwich, fine. It’s a a much more adult way of eating because an adult isn’t forced to eat whatever items another adult puts in front of them, and if they dislike something they’ll just eat more of something else. [/quote]

So at what age does that end?[/quote]

Well, how old are you? Because that’s how you probably eat as an adult.[/quote]

No, as a matter of fact I don't. If I ate dessert first I would be in terrible health.[/quote]

What a weird idea. If you eat the same food in a different order it doesn’t impact your health unless you think offering nutritionally balanced meals means every meal has cake.[/quote]

I eat the healthy food first, because I'm a mature adult and I realize those are the foods that my body needs to stay healthy. Then if I have room leftover, I eat the dessert. If I"m full, I only eat a few bites because dessert is good.

This is actually STANDARD PRACTICE all over the world, yet you are calling it a weird idea.

This "let them choose what to eat" idea is for children just learning how to feed themselves. It's not how most people eat past the age of 4. Let your kids grow up. They are no longer toddlers in preschool. They can learn to adapt themselves to a group setting -- and if they can't, or if mommy insists they don't have to, they're in for a world of problems in the coming years. Good luck with that.[/quote]

Do you eat dessert at every meal? Because that’s where your health problems are arising. If you have carrots, chicken, cucumber and yogurt dip at a meal, it is nutritionally irrelevant whether you eat the cucumbers before the carrots. The same is true of a toddler eating oatmeal before yogurt.[/quote]

Let's not pretend we don't understand the issue. Order is not the issue -- except for cookies, and yes, most people consider "baked oatmeal" to be cookies. Most people teach their children to eat the cookies last. Most do.[/quote]

If what OP describes as going into the cookies is accurate— just oatmeal and bananas— then this is only about order. Oatmeal and bananas are not less nutritious than a sandwich or strawberries.[/quote]

See here's the thing -- it's not about the round, baked oatmeal thingamajig that OP sent in. Because OP's child is part of CLASS now. The teacher is dealing with the entire class. She can't ask what the ingredients are of every item. The rule is, cookies last. That goes for all kids, even precious kids with baked oatmeal that looks like a cookie.[/quote]

And precisely because it a a BAD rule for a class is why I would push back. No child should be subjected to this rule.  That is why it is worth fighting this.  Preschool teacher DOES NOT have a degree in nutrition and should not be making nutritionally unwise rules. [/quote]

Maybe you can start a preschool based on nutrition and run it yourself. That way you can make the rules.[/quote]

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