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[quote=Anonymous]^ messed up quoting Your kids have already picked up on this on some level, children are very intuitive about emotions, caregivers and attachment. If you develop cancer, MS, Parkinsons, have an accident or one of the kids develops significant SN, don't be surprised if he bails. His passive aggressive immaturity, lack of care about how his actions impact others and self absorption do not suggest he'd be a person of good character who would step up. What is that saying about past being prologue? And choosing him and allowing this to color the self image of tiny new people is also on you, OP. While you are so focused on your low pay "dream job" your kids are being harmed by your unhealthy family dynamics, you and your husband both avoid, in diffrent ways. There is no talk of shared activities, joy, fun, any specifics of love and enjoyment of those kids. Better you both max out earnings and hire a warm nanny. [/quote]
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