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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Women take much harder financial hit due to child birth and career setbacks vs men, and that's a proven statistical fact" -- they weren't going to have superstar careers so the "hit" is knocking them from a low level to a somewhat lower level, and meanwhile they spent years having all their food, clothing, and shelter paid for.[/quote]

Stop stating things as fact that just aren’t.  When I quit to be a SAHM - which my husband and I agreed upon - my DH and I were both in BigLaw and I earned more.  Yep, for 15 years my DH has paid for my food and clothing and our houses, as well as tons of travel, gifts, private school and college tuition for our kids, and everything else in our life.  I gave up a huge salary and significant retirement savings, and that’s a fact - I probably outearned you because I was statistically in the top 5%, so definitely not the “low level” you imagine of SAHM.  I have friends who stay home and who were also lawyers, doctors and C Suite execs in their past.  You are clearly misogynistic so could not attract the kind of woman who achieved a lot in her own life before becoming a SAHM.  Too bad.[/quote]

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