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Not all cheaters are serial cheaters. Sometimes they just meet the right person.[/quote]
Keep telling yourself that. Let us know how it goes. [/quote]

NP, indeed not all cheaters are serial cheaters, when we met my DH was in on-off LRT with HS sweetheart, they were long distance for the last few years also, both were lonely and got into other relationships before making it officially over; been together over 25 years with no infidelity issues and still in lust with each other, although had some periods of basically sexless marriage because of child care and disease; some relationships just run their course and it is difficult to let go of someone you care about and have history with, practically is part of your family, but what is the point of not letting it go when it becomes much more difficult to make it work then end it
I know of few such cases, got together like teenagers, went on to marry after college, so good people with good intentions, marriage was not happy, both felt lonely together and one of them inevitably gets to meet someone else that helps them take the decision to end it, no matter how hard it is for everyone 
I don’t understand the situation where the spouse is barely connecting with the other but insists on staying together; children do not fare better  in marriages with issues where the spouses fight constantly or barely talk to each other, sometimes, no amount of effort is enough to make it decent so better work together on the split; sadly, there is always one spouse that wants to go through hell before reaching for heaven …. none of the alternatives is ideal, either split, work the difficult details, feel lonely, hurt, whatever or stay together, miserable for the time being and faking it until you make it, either way has pain in it for all, including for the children. wonder why is so easy for rich people to separate when things get tough, because money does not matter, spouses are independent and assistants take care of everything, easy peasy, it hurts but there is alcohol and they still look good and can get out the next day and fall in love all over again [/quote]

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