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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Current status: Separated with kids. ExW had an ongoing affair that turned physical. At first, we tried to work through it and realized that nothing I could do was right anymore. A lot of gaslighting occurred. Married for 16 years, together 22. I don't think that people who have affairs think twice about the damage and carnage they leave behind. They're happy with their newfound love at the expense of their kids. I see my kids every day and my heart breaks for them. There's a fire that's missing from their eyes. I can't ever forgive her for that. [/quote] That's so sad. I'm so sorry. And, I agree with you, that "most" people don't care about the damage and carnage. However, there are a few out there that truly do and spend a lifetime making up for it and changing their coping skills/ways. But, they certainly underestimate the damage and carnage when they first embark on cheating--they do mental gymnastics to justify it in their minds.[/quote]
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