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We will have to agree to disagree.It doesn't matter if you believe me or not. Maybe you just came across shitty men, I don't know. I don't know you, or where you were looking. Plenty of people have weight loss surgery, and gain it back why? Because they didn't change their habits. WLS is not a magic pill. I am currently seeing a dietician, and therapist ( for many reasons) please don't pretend that because you knew people " like me" you know what it's like to be me. I feel sorry for you honestly. I feel sorry that you could love yourself from the inside until you lost the weight. That makes me sad. My normal, decent, boyfriend is attracted to all types of women, INCLUDING me. Even the plus sized pin-up, porn industry is a multi million dollar industry that money is coming from somewhere. My friend Dan wrote for the Village voice " ask a guy who likes fat chicks". He is sane, normal, and an overall awesome person. He is just attracted to fat women. There are plenty of "normal" guys just like him. Like I said before I want to lose weight soley for health reasons. I don't think I'm at a healthy weight. That said I'm not going to hate my body because it's not perfect. Yes I am sexy, yes I am beautiful, I'm fun to be around, I'm caring, and deserving of love. I am a person, There are more things to me than my weight! I am someones sister, someones daughter, and a friend to many.  I did state earlier in the thread that I used to binge eat all the time. I don't know why I'm reiterating this. Since I've been seeing my dietician, I don't feel the need to do that anymore.[/quote]

WLS is actually a "magic pill" - at least for the first few years.  It physical forces you to eat differently and less.  Now, after the first few years,  you can then work your way back up to gaining weight. But if one has surgery, then pursues therapy assuming they have emotional eating issues, in a few years they should be able to maintain a healthy weight.

Why waste time and money with a dietician? You don't need one because you already know what and how to eat, you just don't do it.   I have yet to meet a fatty who hasn't been on enough diets to know the calorie count or WW points value of just about any food!

[/quote] LOL!!! We will never agree. My dr who I saw when considering wls at HOLY CROSS HOSPITAL told me "it's not a magic pill". Yes your body will police itself if you eat bad things, but for how long? I know someone who had the surgery, and has now gained it all back. I've seen or heard about it happening a lot. Hell even some of the BL contestants had surgery before the show. I started seeing a dietician to learn proper portion sizes. You never answered my question. You had WLS to change your body, what are you going to do to change your personality?[/quote]

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