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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s very possible he’s been dating all of them longer than you. by actually wouldn’t mind a break up coffee date because it provides some finality. We’ve all had a break up phone call or text that didn’t feel complete. It’s not going to be a fun time for anyone but it’s a mature approach. I will say that I would’ve narrowed my dating partners down prior to this. [/quote]

Seeing them longer than 3 months but not sleeping with either of them? Hmmmm a likely story :roll: [/quote]

There is no indication from original post that he is not being intimate with them. [/quote]

Ok I saw the update a few million pages in. Six weeks is long enough to merit an in person interaction. For all you know they are hanging out a few times a week. Even casually if you respect the other person it’s not a terrible idea to close the loop well. You were not exclusive. It prob hurts a bit to fully understand that. If you can’t move forward without feeling put out you’d prob be better starting over with someone else. [/quote]

Not really. A few dates and no sex sounds pretty casual. A simple text/phone call would suffice. Not sure a guy with all the time in the world to be dating multiple women many nights of the week, whom he may or may not be sleeping with, sounds like a good catch. Must not have much of a career to have so much free time. Just another red flag in this situation.[/quote]

OK let’s be honest no one believes adults are not having sex by six weeks. [/quote]

I am a woman. I don't have sex within 6 weeks. [/quote]

Do you consider yourself in a serious relationship after 6 weeks of casual dating with no sex, warranting an in person "break up" date?[/quote]

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