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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing.  Do you really think a 20 year old hottie is interested in your 41 year old husband?  Calm down.  [/quote]

Not OP, but that's really not the point. If he's relying on attention from random 20 yr old hot girls for a self-esteem boost, or whatever, how long does that go on and at what point does he need more than just an Instagram follow-back or some DMs? Even if she'd never in a million years be interested in him,

(1) hit up enough 20 yr old girls and you will find one who is absolutely game for having an affair with a married 41 year old -- won't even take that long, and

(2) the very fact he feels he needs this kind of interaction is a giant red flag that he's insecure, looking for trouble, having a midlife crisis, etc. A happy, well-adjusted man in his 40s who values his wife and his family is not going to strike up social media friendships with 20 year olds he met at a salon. He's just not. He'd know how it looks and that nothing positive would come from it, and leave it alone. Only men who feel unfulfilled and are trying to get validation/affection from other women will do this. It's troubling if he falls in this category.[/quote]

Who says he's relying on the attention of this one girl?  All these assumptions are horrible.  She's just following her on IG which honestly most people follow people they know even acquaintances.  Now, is it odd he and her both follow each other on IG - perhaps.  But, that doesn't mean they are talking or have a relationship.  Seriously, following someone on IG means nothing.  You people are reading way too much into this and again I'll repeat: Do you really think a 20 year old is even giving a 41 year old guy the time of day?  No.

Calm down.  Stop creating drama.  We have enough issues in today's world and society to deal with.  [/quote]

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