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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing.  Do you really think a 20 year old hottie is interested in your 41 year old husband?  Calm down.  [/quote]

Not OP, but that's really not the point. If he's relying on attention from random 20 yr old hot girls for a self-esteem boost, or whatever, how long does that go on and at what point does he need more than just an Instagram follow-back or some DMs? Even if she'd never in a million years be interested in him,

(1) hit up enough 20 yr old girls and you will find one who is absolutely game for having an affair with a married 41 year old -- won't even take that long, and

(2) the very fact he feels he needs this kind of interaction is a giant red flag that he's insecure, looking for trouble, having a midlife crisis, etc. A happy, well-adjusted man in his 40s who values his wife and his family is not going to strike up social media friendships with 20 year olds he met at a salon. He's just not. He'd know how it looks and that nothing positive would come from it, and leave it alone. Only men who feel unfulfilled and are trying to get validation/affection from other women will do this. It's troubling if he falls in this category.[/quote]

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