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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One big reason not to get married that early is often mental illness doesn't show up until mid-20s. This happened to both one of my best friends and my H. Both got married at 19, had a child at 20, and then mental illness showed up in their spouses around 23/24. My best friend's now-xH developed bipolar disorder, got fired from multiple jobs for sexual harassment, had affairs, physically and emotionally abused her and their kids, then was arrested, convicted, and put in jail for being violent in public. H's story isn't that bad, but mental illness developed and their child greatly suffered as a result. Good idea to wait until at least mid-20s to get married, or at least wait that long before having kids so you know exactly what genes they'll be getting. [/quote] You’ll be surprised to see number of divorce cases where mental health is mentioned as the cause and most of them were married way after 20’s.[/quote]
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