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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We got married young. Now at 50, our kids are out of the house, so we can travel, bang, etc as much as we want. I wouldn’t trade that for the chance of having sex with others in my 20s. Being 50 with a 13 year old would suck. [/quote]

This (ish). I will be in your shoes.  I had my kids at 28 and 31, which by DCUM standards is basically preadolescent.  My youngest will be off to school when I’m 49 and I’m happy for that.  I have mom friends with kids my age in their mid- to late-forties (I’m mid-thirties).  Sometimes my DH pushes for another but there is no way in hell I would start the process over.  I love my kids but boy is it hard. I’m essentially selfish and lazy, truth be told. [/quote]

Eh.  If you have the money to spend, traveling is a lot more fun in your 20s.  Old people are boring travelers.[/quote]

That’s just you, dear.  Other people are capable of being vibrant and having fun at 50, whether they still have kids at home or not.

This entire thread is filled with pretty pathetic assumptions- that you stop growing once you get married and have children, that older people wouldn’t have anything better to do but raise children, etc.  Different choices will work for different people and only bitter, jealousy prone people will sit there and nitpick every life choice you make.[/quote]

Lol I don’t care how “vibrant” you feel at 50, but the fact is [b]sex, traveling, and pretty much any fun activity is easier and more enjoyable when you’re young. [/b]Ppl get busted and sad after having kids so better to delay it if possible.[/quote]

WTAF[/quote]

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