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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not once has OP said what the grandparents want to do. It's their house, OP, what do THEY want to do?[/quote]

I've said multiple times that they originally liked the plan, but are now concerned that their child is upset, and hope to find a solution that pleases everyone. [/quote]

But who suggested the original plan and how do you know they weren’t initially just trying to please you?[/quote]

DH's oldest sibling suggested that they host, and we laid out that plan.  She then invited both families to spend the night there, since they have more space, and I declined saying we'd rather stay home.  [/quote]

OH MY GOD. No wonder everyone is mad at you. You had the perfect solution and you said no. I can't read anymore.[/quote]

Exactly. I think OP just wants to make things difficult because she's stressed by her DH's and inlaws' health conditions. She wants to come off as a martyr, and a reasonable solution takes that option away from her.

OP you can share your feelings and how hard this has been for you without punishing everyone else.[/quote]

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