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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are so many women posting on this thread?[/quote]

To help the men who are in sexless marriages who might like ideas for how they could not spend nine years celibate like the poster above? I mean if you prefer to just whine about it that’s fine too...[/quote]

to get the men to understand it's probably most of their fault to begin with. and they are demonstrating it here.[/quote]

I think the men don’t see it as their responsibility to work on the relationship or understand the women’s perspective. They want sex and if they’re not getting it they are done.[/quote]

I am one of the men although I don't think I am one of the more obnoxious ones. My resigned view is sort of this:

Its takes more and more effort as the marriage goes on to get some glimmer of sexual intimacy and even what I get is usually out of sympathy than genuine desire.

I have friends who are jackasses, less devoted and physically worse shape but they have good sex lives because their wives genuinely love sex for sex sake.

The answer is just that sometimes life isn't fair and you end up marrying someone who changes in marriage and there isn't a whole lot you can do. I am sure there are plenty of amazing women who thought they chose a great life partner who one day decided they would stop working, get obese, start gambling, start drinking heavy, etc, and there really isn't much you can do about it other than resign yourself or divorce. [/quote]

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