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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The bottom line is that no one is entitled to sex. Not even from one’s spouse. That’s why raping your spouse is now a crime. A lot of the men here seem to think that marriage guarantees them sex. But the fact is that NOTHING gives you access to another person’s body except for their enthusiastic consent. If your spouse doesn’t want to have sex with you, you live with it, you split up, or you arrive at some other solution together. That’s how it is. [/quote]

I guess the part I don't get is this: if your spouse refuses to have sex and refuses to work with you on a solution, why do they also get a say in preventing you from sleeping with others?

And what if divorce isn't so easy? I have a special needs kid who is in an expensive school for extra therapy. We would not be able to afford it if we had two houses and expenses. And who keeps the main home?

Do you see what happens in the real world?

I don't know you but I have to believe you are either very low libido where you could imagine going sexless forever being not that big of a deal or you are rich enough that dividing assets to get divorced would be easy.

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I'm not married. Marriage is a choice and a privilege. You make a vow in front of your loved ones, and your god if you have one, to forsake all others. You also don't get to rape your wife in this country.  So, you can work it out, go without, or divorce. 
No one said it would be easy. 
Cheating is the easy way out. [/quote]

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