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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Fortunately, cheating is neither a crime or a factor in divorce so I don't see how you are any worse off if you get caught.[/quote]

Then you are not very smart.  [b]Read threads on this forum or others by betrayed spouses, and you will get an idea of how bad it can be.[/b]  Those children you use to justify your cheating because you don’t want to lose time with them?  They will lose all respect for you and your relationship with them will never be the same.  Ask me how I know. Then there are friends, family, coworkers, etc.   Don’t kid yourself about the bomb you have lit.[/quote]

Two problems with your assumption.

1) Every post from betrayed wives starts with "we were having sex all the time, things were great, I was blindsided!" I have yet to read one saying "we hadn't had sex in months and admittedly I have rejected him often."

2) If you aren't having sex with your spouse, you don't have a deep connection. Yes, on paper you know it's wrong but it's wrong like standing a friend up for dinner, more of a white lie than a deep betrayal. If you don't have a deep connection (which is impossible on a sexless marriage) you aren't going to feel like there is something deep to lose.

But since you don't have this issue in your marriage, I don't expect you to understand. Just trying to show you the mindset.[/quote]

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