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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So nice to hear non-twin  parents[b] blocking friendships[/b] and penalizing kids based on a slightly awkward situation that is not at all within the kids’ control. [/quote]

dp But is it really the non twin parent who is blocking friendships? It seems that twin parents are because you are not allowing individual friendships to blossom and you are elevating the twins' relationship.  You are family and have tons of opportunity to bond with you twin when you are at home.  Two hours away from your twin isn't going to kill anyone![/quote]

It isn’t about the difficulty being away from the other twin. I wouldn’t send both of my twins if only one was invited. It’s the idea that people don’t even want to bother inviting one twin because they feel guilty excluding the other one so they just exclude both. I agree it’s harder and there is no right answer, but it’s sad to see your kids get excluded literally just because they are twins and other parents don’t want to deal with that.[/quote]

You are missing a critical step here. No one here is saying they would exclude Twin A just because Twin B exists.

They are saying they would move away from supporting a relationship with Twin A if moms like OP insist that Twin B come every time. [/quote]

I actually think some people ARE saying they would exclude twin A just because twin B exists. See nanny above plus some others. [/quote]

Nope. They have no problem with Twin B "existing." They have a problem with Twin B being foisted upon the nanny or other parent automatically every time their sibling has a playdate.[/quote]

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