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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, what works for some people doesn’t work for others. I don’t block anyone; I rarely engage on social media. I’m busy and focused on my own life. The occasional text that floats my way is no different than any other ex-boyfriend who reaches out, and most of us have had those as well. I don’t feel any pull to respond because I did that work. The number of people who need to argue that I haven’t, with no understanding of me or my life, is what I mean by mysoginy. Being comfortable with who you are means that when others people need to talk to you out of your own feelings, you just shrug. Which is what I’m doing here. It’s notable that this is a hijacking from OP‘s post, and needs to stop. I responded to her directly, and my message to her is the same. Lean into yourself and your own values and figure out what’s going on when your actions hurt yourself and others. That will always get you to a better place in life.[/quote]

The thing to realize about DCUM is that it is not your peers, not your usual circle, not your reference points. It’s useful as a cross section of possible responses on an issue, but people are inevitably only responding to the one facet or dimension of any topic that was posted and yet respond with such conviction of an all-seeing god. They are blinded to their own limitations of perspective, but try telling them that and they will scream bloody murder.[/quote]

This.[/quote]

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