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Reply to "If you are divorced and will never remarry"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I am in the minority in valuing time invested, layers of meaning and memory accrued. I’d rather have more rings around my tree than a bunch of cut flowers that will die in a week and always need replacing.[/quote] This is a good metaphor. It's why divorce is so sad, even when necessary.[/quote] Most of us wont move our proverbial flowers around on a [i]weekly [/i][b]basis. You forget, when you write this drivel, that you are writing it to people who are telling you they had unhappy marriages. We don't want more "rings' of pain and abuse, thanks. I will gladly cut and move my flowers: weekly, monthly, or a decade in, if they need cutting and moving. Its marriage that traps you into tending for flower who have no root, way past the point of logic. I simply would rather take and move my flowers, than create more rings of pain, for the rest of my life. You do you though.[/quote]
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