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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The aunt who is “butting in” is an OWNER of a house you were a GUEST at.  Any stuff you leave there is HER property along with the other co-owners.  The rules are HERS along with the co-owners to enforce, not yours.  I think you guys are going to get voted out of the beach house and that 275 board is about to be very expensive.  But hey you stuck to your guns and got you $100 bucks! [/quote]

You embarrass yourself by not reading the thread. Op’s father is also a co-owner. [/quote]

U[b]mm no the aunt can and should veto them from the guest list no matter what the other co-owners want[/b].  No one is allowed to have guests unless all co-owners agree on them.  The entitlement of op is ASTOUNDING.  They are guests who think they are owners.  You don’t store your property on someone else’s house and then demand reimbursement for its damage.   [/quote]

yea, that would work out great in practice- Aunt, "I veto nephew and his awful family" FIL, "OK aunt, I veto your kids." And then you have a family beach house that no one can use [/quote]

…well, YES, dear. That’s how it works. When co-owners can no longer agree on things like guests, you SELL, you buy someone out, or you go to a no-guests-whatsoever policy. That’s how it goes.

And if guests don’t want that to happen, perhaps they shouldn’t act in an entitled and absurd manner over a used boogie board.[/quote]

Yeah, that isn’t how this will go. [/quote]

Oh really, do tell. How interesting that OP’s FIL (or another co-owner of this property) has found this board.

My view is based on my mom and her siblings co-owning a large lake property, managing it for decades, and ultimately selling it. What is your view based on?[/quote]

Yes. So very interesting that OP’s FIL has found this board. That is exactly what has happened. [/quote]

This is the most intellectually lazy comment out there.  "Someone disagrees with me, so they must have a personal stake in the discussion.  Obviously, an impartial party would *have* to agree with me."
Be better, PP.  If you can.   [/quote]

You’ll note that what kicked off this line of argument was the DECLARATIVE STATEMENT of “that isn’t how this will go.” [/quote]

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