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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I married the wrong person. I just do not respect my husband. I find him incompetent and underachieving. I have learned over our 7 years of marriage that he is all talk and no action, the type to make excuses instead of take action. However, he is a good father to our young daughter.

I am 37. I am fit, attractive, and I have a good job.

Would it be a terrible mistake to divorce? Would it be possible for me to remarry someone I could respect or did that ship realistically sail?

I suppose my choices are just make peace with my husband or take my chances in a divorce. My goals are to have a happy marriage with mutual love and respect and to model that to my daughter.

WWYD? [/quote]

OP, you have a child together, you gotta stay. Your reasons for leaving him just aren’t good enough to justify divorce with a child involved. Lots of people wouldn’t marry their spouses again if they knew then what they know now. 
Most likely if you leave him and remarry you will end up just as dissatisfied with the new guy as you are now and you would be dealing with all the additional headaches of blended families, step parenting, etc.  
Just make the best of your current situation. [/quote]

This is horrible advice. Horrible. She is going to end up divorced later and everyone will be in a worse position. The child will not remember them living together. This is the best time to leave.[/quote]

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