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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait wait wait....you’re having a csection, no time off for your husband, and you think you’ll be handling laundry and meals and breastfeeding and cleaning?!

Oh OP you’re in for a world of hurt and your husband will come home to a debacle.

Also, unrelated but now I’m curious, y’all Maga?[/quote]

OP here. Yes. If will be hard, but many women do it. Many single moms, military women, women with multiple kids, etc., all do it. That is why I stocked up to make my life easier since my husband will only be helping me in the evenings. I’m also making freezer meals and we will likely be doing lots of takeout or Hello Fresh meals do make it easier. I will be doing during the day and night. We do have a house cleaner Rhys comes twice a week to do deep cleaning.

I stated many times whoever said my husband worked out of the home was mistaken. He works from home.

No we are not, but political stance has nothing to do with this topic. [/quote]

But you are wrong here, they don’t do it alone. Listen to the moms who have had kids and c sections and who’ve been through it. Women have help OR you let some things slide as your body recuperates. Come back here a month after you deliver and confirm with me the house is clean, everyone is fed, laundry is done, and breastfeeding is going great, and you didn’t need anything extra and your husband comes to a clean tidy home. It will not happen if you don’t have help.  And this will be a bigger issue for you and your husband.

I asked because Maga are usually know-it-all’s and I don’t waste my brain cells on them. [/quote]

Not OP but there are many moms who do it alone without any help. I’ve known many women who had husbands in residency with no family and they managed. Women who had multiple kids who had husbands deployed who managed. Women aren’t fragile little beings. [/quote]

Hey I had an emergency c section with blood transfusions after and I get it, our bodies are strong. But I’m sorry, those first few months, my apartment was a mess, I focused on myself resting and baby safe and healthy and fed, nothing else really mattered. And I don’t mean that my place was a pigsty, but it definitely had clutter (gasp!) and unrecycled boxes (gasp!) and was not tidy. A first time mom like OP is about to have a c section and her first kid, be home bound for months according to her, and is acting like everything will be the same. [/quote]

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