Reply to Long term affair... trying to wrap my head around if it’s even possible to get over your DH’s 3 yr

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Long term affair... trying to wrap my head around if it’s even possible to get over your DH’s 3 yr "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Serious question here, my DH received oral sex three times over a one year period from an acquaintance.  We went to therapy and reconciled but he is adamant that it was not an affair since there was not a deep emotional connection.  I think sex and secrecy equals an affair.  Am I wrong?[/quote]

Your H is wrong.[/quote]

I find it hard to believe he was the receiver and never 'gave' anything of himself to her. Did she really just blow him and never expect satisfaction herself now?  I would lead with the assumption he reciprocated in some manner.[/quote]

I had a friend in this situation.  The married AP who was her boss would give her gifts, buy her nice dinners and lunches and she would reciprocate with oral but thought if nothing else sexual happened, it wasn’t cheating on her part.  She was married too.[/quote]

I am baffled when people get drawn into these arguments of was it or wasn't it an affair...dude's getting blown on the side and the issue is semantics?? Gtfo.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics