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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what is the real issue.  You don't want to hear that some women are happier staying home and appreciate having the option.  You don't want to hear it is best for some families.  I'm sorry you have a difficult marriage situation but its up to you to fix it or get out of it.[/quote]

DP. Not OP, but I don't get that from OP at all. Are you sure you aren't just projecting? I am honestly confused by your response. It seems kind of bizarre. I have done both SAHM and WOHM (and student mom, and WAHM), so maybe I am just not as defensive, but I really don't.get your response here.[/quote]

Read the subject and many of the other comments.  They are very negative to men and women and it gets old.[/quote]

No, you are projecting your own bs. Lots of thoughtful pps on here.  This is a societal problem in the US.  Just because some women are happy being SAHMs doesn’t change the fact that there are societal problems and expectations that unfairly and preferentially impact women. And the ripple effect is that they affect everyone whether you want to be a parent or not. The bulk of the negative effects are on women but these inequities also affect men who might want to be primary caregivers or suffer under the stress of being the sole breadwinner.

It is sad that we cannot try to talk about these problems without some SAHMs taking it personally (You needn’t)or some people even trying to deny them outright. [/quote]

OP again all of this. It's just sad that people would rather put energy into mommy wars than discussing things, that might initiate  change  and benefit all of our lives, and the lives of our families.[/quote]

You’re an idiot[/quote]

DP. You really aren't very good at making your case. You seem invested in perpetuating mommy wars, but whatever. That's sad but people just pity you.[/quote]

:roll: You’re still an idiot OP. Btw no one believes you just because you post multiple times claiming you’re a “DP” or “NP.” Your weird writing style gives it all away.[/quote]

+100. This whole thread feels like a veiled attempt to bash women, sahm’s in particular. OP can post all she wants pretending to be different people agreeing with her, but her motives seem completely disingenuous. [/quote]

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